Meditative sex is a totally different sex act. It is a journey to sexual and sensual enlightenment. It is not something to be gotten over with; nor something to be done for a release; nor something to be
finished hurriedly with; and it is not a bodily act. It is a deep spiritual communion of the two bodies; it is a deep meeting of two inner-nesses; it is a deep meeting of two subjectivities penetrating each other; during which our whole energy is concentrating near our spine.

... close our eyes, visualize the deep meeting of the two inner-nesses; feel the softness of the two subjectivities penetrating each other...
In the peak of a deep sex act, our spine will begin to discharge electricity. If the intercourse is very deep, very loving and long, and if the two lovers are just in a deep embrace, silent and non moving; just being filled with each other; just remaining in a deep embrace; the moment of enlightenment will happen.
The best way to do it is just forget about sex, and in the warmth of love, filled with peace, and relaxed; close our eyes; be body-oriented, and feel our body from within. When in deep embrace, remain inside and visualize our spinal column.
Love is the deepest relaxation, don’t make it a great tension, or make it an anxiety or a burden…..



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